I'm afraid the refueling sequence gets a little more complex than that for the 747-8, and really, the 747 in general. Just throwing some random values here for the 747-8 using PMDG as a reference.
40,000 pounds:
Main 1 and 4: 10,000 each, 20,000 total.
Res 1 and 4: 0 each, 0 total.
Main 2 and 3: 10,000 each, 20,000 total.
Center: 0.
Stabilizer: 0.
80,000 pounds:
Main 1 and 4: 13,400 each, 26,800 total.
Res 1 and 4: 6,600 each, 13,200 total.
Main 2 and 3: 20,000 each, 40,000 total.
Center: 0.
Stabilizer: 0.
120,000 pounds:
Main 1 and 4: 19,700 each, 39,400 total.
Res 1 and 4: 10,300 each, 20,600 total.
Main 2 and 3: 30,000 each, 60,000 total.
Center: 0.
Stabilizer: 0.
160,000 pounds:
Main 1 and 4: 29,700 each, 59,400 total.
Res 1 and 4: 10,300 each, 20,600 total.
Main 2 and 3: 40,000 each, 80,000 total.
Center: 0.
Stabilizer: 0.
200,000 pounds:
Main 1 and 4: 35,600 each, 71,200 total.
Res 1 and 4: 10,300 each, 20,600 total.
Main 2 and 3: 54,100 each, 108,200 total.
Center: 0.
Stabilizer: 0.
240,000 pounds:
Main 1 and 4: 35,600 each, 71,200 total.
Res 1 and 4: 10,300 each, 20,600 total.
Main 2 and 3: 74,100 each, 148,200 total.
Center: 0.
Stabilizer: 0.
280,000 pounds:
Main 1 and 4: 35,600 each, 71,200 total.
Res 1 and 4: 10,300 each, 20,600 total.
Main 2 and 3: 94,100 each, 188,200 total.
Center: 0.
Stabilizer: 0.
320,000 pounds:
Main 1 and 4: 35,600 each, 71,200 total.
Res 1 and 4: 10,300 each, 20,600 total.
Main 2 and 3: 96,700 each, 193,400 total.
Center: 34,800.
Stabilizer: 0.
360,000 pounds:
Main 1 and 4: 35,600 each, 71,200 total.
Res 1 and 4: 10,300 each, 20,600 total.
Main 2 and 3: 96,700 each, 193,400 total.
Center: 66,100.
Stabilizer: 8,700.
400,000 pounds:
Main 1 and 4: 35,600 each, 71,200 total.
Res 1 and 4: 10,300 each, 20,600 total.
Main 2 and 3: 96,700 each, 193,400 total.
Center: 97,300.
Stabilizer: 17,500.
421,142 pounds (max):
Main 1 and 4: 35,600 each, 71,200 total.
Res 1 and 4: 10,300 each, 20,600 total.
Main 2 and 3: 96,700 each, 193,400 total.
Center: 113,900.
Stabilizer: 22,100.
From what I can tell, main 1, 2, 3, and 4 will remain equal initially until main 1 and 4 reach 13,400 pounds, then reserve 1 and 4 will start to fill up until reaching maximum capacity. The sum of main and res 1 and 4 would then be equal to main 2 and 3 up until main 1 and 4 reach capacity, at which point main 2 and 3 are filled to capacity, followed by the center. Somewhere down the line, the stabilizer tank starts to get filled, but it's not clear when that is or at what rate it gets filled relative to the center tank, though I guess this point wouldn't be relevant if the default 747-8 doesn't have a center tank anyway. This is specific to this airplane, as with most twin-engine airplanes only have the main wing tanks and the center tank, so you would fill up the wing tanks first before filling up the center tank. The 747-400, on the other hand, has the reserve tanks tied to 2 and 3 rather than 1 and 4, so here are values for that, again, from PMDG as reference.
40,000 pounds
Main 1 and 4: 10,000 each, 20,000 total.
Main 2 and 3: 10,000 each, 20,000 total.
Res 2 and 3: 0 each, 0 total.
Center: 0.
Stabilizer: 0.
80,000 pounds
Main 1 and 4: 20,000 each, 40,000 total.
Main 2 and 3: 20,000 each, 40,000 total.
Res 2 and 3: 0 each, 0 total.
Center: 0.
Stabilizer: 0.
120,000 pounds
Main 1 and 4: 30,000 each, 60,000 total.
Main 2 and 3: 30,000 each, 60,000 total.
Res 2 and 3: 0 each, 0 total.
Center: 0.
Stabilizer: 0.
160,000 pounds
Main 1 and 4: 30,000 each, 60,000 total.
Main 2 and 3: 43,600 each, 43,600 total.
Res 2 and 3: 6,400 each, 12,800 total.
Center: 0.
Stabilizer: 0.
200,000 pounds
Main 1 and 4: 30,000 each, 60,000 total.
Main 2 and 3: 61,100 each, 122,200 total.
Res 2 and 3: 8,900 each, 17,800 total.
Center: 0.
Stabilizer: 0.
240,000 pounds
Main 1 and 4: 30,000 each, 60,000 total.
Main 2 and 3: 81,100 each, 162,200 total.
Res 2 and 3: 8,900 each, 17,800 total.
Center: 0.
Stabilizer: 0.
280,000 pounds
Main 1 and 4: 30,000 each, 60,000 total.
Main 2 and 3: 84,000 each, 168,000 total.
Res 2 and 3: 8,900 each, 17,800 total.
Center: 34,100.
Stabilizer: 0.
320,000 pounds
Main 1 and 4: 30,000 each, 60,000 total.
Main 2 and 3: 84,000 each, 168,000 total.
Res 2 and 3: 8,900 each, 17,800 total.
Center: 65,600.
Stabilizer: 8,500.
360,000 pounds
Main 1 and 4: 30,000 each, 60,000 total.
Main 2 and 3: 84,000 each, 168,000 total.
Res 2 and 3: 8,900 each, 17,800 total.
Center: 97,000.
Stabilizer: 17,100.
382,928 pounds (max)
Main 1 and 4: 30,000 each, 60,000 total.
Main 2 and 3: 84,000 each, 168,000 total.
Res 2 and 3: 8,900 each, 17,800 total.
Center: 115,000.
Stabilizer: 22,100.
From what I can tell, main 1, 2, 3, and 4 will remain equal initially until main 1 and 4 reach capacity. Main 2 and 3 will then continue to be filled until reaching 43,600 pounds, at which point reserve 2 and 3 start to get filled until reaching capacity. Once that's done, main 2 and 3 will continue to fill to capacity, followed by the center tank. Stabilizer tank gets filled at some point, but again, it's not clear when or how it gets filled relative to the center tank.