As far as I know, the f18 has not fly by wire. That's something usual on the last generation fighters, but not in that generation. That's one of the things that has made the lovely f16 so special all this years (and so hard to simulate on a comercial sim).
Anyway, I use to fly a freeware Hawk (the jet trainer) for x-plane which had auto-trim (nothing comparable to FBW). Is it a usual feature on combat planes? It makes things a lot easier. Anybody knows?
Also, it is worth mentioning that it exists a plug-in for x-plane that simulates FBW. It puts itself between the joystick and the control surfaces and converts stick inputs in roll rates and g demands by the proper deflection of the control surfaces. With no other sim I have felt the chain Stick-FBW-Control Surfaces-Flight Model so authenticly.