1. Fuel truck arrives and starts to refuel, aircraft shows as fuel being loaded. If sim is paused for a longish period the fuel truck disappears but loading fuel in the sim continues.
Impossible to help you unless you provide with all the following informations:
- the airplane used
- the precise, exact, sequence how you did the refueling.
2. Sometimes the pushback dialogue doesn’t show “confirm engine start “ and only shows “stop here or abort pushback”.
This because you opened the menu before the pushback ended and you were asked to confirm a good engine start. Only after you are asked to confirm good engine start, the menu will show the extra option.
Aborting pushback makes the pushback vehicle disappear but This leaves the aircraft steering uncontrollable (as though the pushback vehicle is still there but not visible ). Resetting GSX or disabling makes no difference so a P3d reset is only option.
There was a small bug in the Abort function, but it has been fixed a couple of week ago, just be sure to run FSDT Live update now.