I was able to get the route with SID checked-off as suggested, thanks!
As for direct routes, it seems to have no problem generating a route KAWM-EDDF, where KAWM is a small kakish airport near KMEM... go figure )))
now another thing is I don't see, or see very scarce traffic at MEM. I use UT2, and I expected to see a cosmo-galactic myriad of FedEx MDs. Most of the time I see nothing, and I believe once I saw an AA MD80 at the terminal, that's it.
My traffic set to 30% which is ok.
P3Dv3.2