With no CYVR all works absolutely fine and I can push sliders right and never get above 3.2GB.
That doesn't mean much, you would probably obtained the same result by turning off PNW and let CYVR enabled instead, and say the same on OrbX forum, about how CYVR can happily run without PNW enabled, and OOM-ing with PNW enabled.
As I've said, you should test each add-on independently, and see the memory usage changes after turning on/off each one. Try to turn off PNW, and see how much free memory you get with CYVR enabled, and if it's less/more than the opposite situation.
Something about CYVR, despite what you say, is not playing well VAS wise (and yes I'm aware that people have bashed CYVR VAS usage before and I'm not one of those as have been able to manage my system perfectly well until now).
My previous screenshot indicated that CYVR is not particular large regarding to VAS usage, and there's nothing special with it.
It's JUST that it has been released when too many users had that area already filled with stuff. Note that, I installed CYVR at its *maximum* texture size, with 4096x4096 textures used for BOTH buildings and shadows and with 3 seasons.
With just PNW my max VAS usage is around 3.2GB
This is already unreasonably high. As you can see in my screenshot about CYVR usage, which accounts for about 700MB more than with no scenery loaded, if you add 700MB to 3.2GB, you are already in OOM-land.
Now, you should question why, on a default setting (as in my screenshot), P3D takes 700 MB with no scenery loaded, and 1.4GB with CYVR loaded, but it takes 3.2 GB on your system, with "just PNW ?