After passenger boarding no matter which gate im at with the -300ER it says "pushback is service is not available at this position" everytime i request for pushback, seems to be working fine with the -200LR
It's not possible you would get that message with an airplane, and not another. That message is related only to the parking itself, and (as explained on the GSX manual Page 23 ), indicates you were at a parking set by the scenery developer with a Pushback preference to "None", and this can of course be customized using the GSX parking customization option, to override the pushback preferences set in the scenery.