I have the same issue, every airport the marshall puts myMain gear on the "T" not the nose gear. Is there anyway to adjust this?
You don't have the same issue. This thread was about having the airplane misplaced when starting a flight and this, of course, doesn't have any relationship with GSX, since GSX won't affect in any way how your airplane or AI airplanes will park, because that's entirely controlled by the AFCAD
Your question, instead, is why the GSX Marshaller doesn't put your front gear on the parking Tee, which is a GSX question and, is related to the AFCAD, but it's another issue entirely.
On any airport that doesn't have any specific customization (like the FSDT ones) GSX doesn't know anything about the stopping positions on ground, which might differ depending on the airplane type and the parking. FSX AFCAD standard support the Tee parameter but, there are basically no airports that use it, and 3rd party airports have their own custom markings on ground, so that data is entirely missing from the AFCAD, which is the only thing GSX knows about an airport.
Which means, lacking any better information (es. full airport customization, like in FSDT airports) the GSX Marshaller will place the CENTER of your airplane (which is the red cross you can see from the Top Down view) to be in the CENTER of the parking, as defined in the scenery AFCAD. This will result in the same positioning AS IF you were starting a flight or moved the airplane using the standard "Go To Airport" menu on FSX.